A Real Pain

I loved the telling of lives, beautiful shots and authentic dialogue throughout this movie. Loved the music and how it accompanies situations between them. Two cousins that have similar struggles about their past but deal with their lives differently as they reminisce on it. Those who struggle with their hardships externally and internally are displayed throughout and those that are almost in between.

In my opinion, I think each person from the tour group represented a way of life. David and Benji represent the two juxtaposed sides of those who live through life of grief, relationships and kindness and the rest of the group are those that can tend to lean to one side, but not as drastic as Benji or David. The “in-betweeners” can almost live through life with content and understanding, but those that are on complete edge have a hard time expressing their thoughts to the others without feeling misunderstood. Such raw and authentic dialogue made you love and have an interest in each character. You can’t help but feel bad and infuriated with Benji at the same time. Then you come to understand David’s struggle as well and feel heartbreak for both. There really wasn’t a huge build-up and “climatic” moment but I think this movie doesn’t need it as you go back and forth with characters much of the time. Loved this movie and the actors portrayals - highly recommend!

a bit confusing yes, but theres an unexplainable heaviness in my chest after watching this. the actors' performance was top-notch, and itll take a few rewatches to understand all the meanings. so much to analyze and interpret. a beautiful movie with truly stunning cinematograph ❤️

Good laughs, great dialogue, great supporting cast. Ponderous and poignant. Beautifully shot. Makes me want to visit Poland even.

Parting thought: life is not meant to be lived one way. It is a rich tapestry of people living their own way. Just try not to sweat the small stuff.

liked it

Honestly I loved it. KC was great, JE always plays himself…gorgeous visuals and a beautiful meditation on grief. I want to rewatch it to better understand the ending…

Reminded me of Sideways quite a bit